It seems to me like maybe you aren’t paying attention to the red flags in the beginning and are getting blind sighted by attraction. The first step would be to pay attention to the red flags in the beginning and not let a relationship go further if the woman does not have her “stuff” together. I know it is easier said than done, but my advice would be to not sleep with a woman unless she has the qualities you are looking for in a partner/wife. Secondly, how are you meeting women? Go out to charity events, professional mixers, anything where women who have their “stuff” together hang out. Also maybe try online dating. There you can specify what you are looking for and weed out the women who don’t have the qualities you want. Lastly, go to my Bachelor’s page and fill out the inquiry form and I will see who I have for you!
Go get your woman!
I would love to match you up! I would also love for you to get approached by men. I don’t mean to sound harsh, but there must be something that you are not doing. Do you smile when you are out? Have confidence? Love yourself? Make sure you feel and look beautiful when you are out and about? Do these things and go where the single men are; sports bars, happy hour by office buildings, sporting events, golf courses, electronic stores, etc… Anything men related. Also, register with me…go to the Bachelorette page on my website. It’s always good to have a lot of options and not put all your eggs in one basket.